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This blog is for anyone to follow me on my journey to Brazil on the Rotary Exchange. I am from British Columbia and I will be living for a year in Belo Horizonte, Minas Gerais.

Saturday, 4 January 2014

New Beginnings

Once I arrived home from Patos, I immediately had to start packing because I was to move houses on the 27th (the next day). I was really sad packing my things and I was super lazy... I didn't realize how much stuff I had collected over the three months! Eli came over to help me then the two of us went shopping. I finished packing that night and spent the rest of the night watching tv with my host parents. I wrote them a huge letter in Portuguese saying my thanks; I hope I didn't make too many
mistakes in Portuguese haha.
The next day Sofia came to pick me up bright and early with all of my things. It was sad saying bye but I know I will visit them often (they let me keep their house key so I can return when I want)
It is bittersweet saying bye because I really felt like that was my home! I knew how to make coffee and use the oven. I even knew how everyone likes their coffee! I was very comfortable. I am now looking forward to learning how everything works in Sofia's house! It will be easy because I am already pretty much a part of the family.

The day after arriving in Sofi's house, Sofi and I travelled to a city about 6 hours away called Escarpas Do Lago. Prior to arriving, everyone had told me that Escarpas is a beautiful city where pretty much only rich people live. I arrived and every.single.house. was gorgeous. The city was surrounded by multiple lakes and cliffs. The house we stayed at was about an hour outside of the city. It was a beautiful, house with a pool, a bar, jukebox, pool table, ping pong table, multiple rooms, tv room, beautiful kitchen, and it was all located right on the lake. They had a seadoo and two boats as well. I was living in paradise for those few days, my goodness. This was only the main house, up the hill a little more there were a couple other houses just for sleeping. In total, there were probably about 30-40 people who came to the 'main house' during the day. We stayed there because Sofi's friend, Paula, was there with her family as well.
We spent our days soaking up the sun by the pool, boating, drinking fresh juice, and swimming in the pool. It was so relaxing. On the Sunday night it was the birthday of two of the kids who were staying there. They decorated the whole house, made those little chocolates, and made tons of other food as well.
On New Years Eve, Sofi, Paula, and I after a long relaxing day by the pool, got up and started getting ready for the big night. Everyone was dressed up beautifully and the house was decorated with candles and lights. Once again, the food was amazing. All 40 people gathered outside near the pool and cheered for the new year. Everyone hugged everyone and said their wishes. There were tons of fireworks and music and happiness. A little while after midnight, we hopped in the car and headed to the party. It took about an hour to get to the party so we didn't arrive until almost 3 am. This party we went to is famous in Brazil for being awesome at New Years. The venue was decorated full out in white everything. There was an outside section as well that overlooked the lake. We stayed there until about 9:30am when Paula's dad came and picked us up by boat. It was such an amazing party, I will never forget that night.

Something to know about New Years in Brazil: every colour that you wear on New Years, has a meaning. White= peace, blue= responsibility, pink= love, red= passion, purple= mystery, gold= money, green= hope, grey= changes/innovation of life, and many more. Basically you don't want to wear black. If white is peace, you can imagine what black is.
The most popular colour to wear is white so it was really beautiful to see the whole party in pretty much white.

After lunch that day, we headed back home to BH. It was a long 6 hour drive in the heat and everyone was exhausted but my oh my, it was so much fun.
Escarpas is a really beautiful city.

I am now all settled into my new home. Jane (my new mom) taught me which buses to take to certain places. And woohooo, guess what? There is a huuuge mall right near my house. Oh happy days!
I went quite some time without seeing my exchange friends which is kind of good in some ways because I didn't speak English for over a week. I am often finding myself thinking in Portuguese; it's super cool. It only keeps getting better!
                                                   Us on the way back from the party

                                       The beautiful view of the lake at the party venue


                                                           One of the dance floors


                                                        New Years decorations! and food

                                                               The house we stayed at

                                              The group of kids! (not even all of them)

Packed my bags to move to Sofi's. I collected a lot of things in 3 and a half months!

Thursday, 2 January 2014

Christmas!

For Christmas my family took me to Patos de Minas again to celebrate Christmas with the whooole family. We left for Patos early Saturday morning (dec 21). That night, one of my host cousins was having her 15th birthday party. This doesn't sound like a huge thing, I know, but it is. Here in Brazil, turning 15 is the big birthday. You get to choose between having a huge party with all your friends and family, or you can travel (most who travel go to Disney World). Also, most girls do a huge photo shoot day so many houses with teenagers are filled with giant pictures of their kids on the wall. My host cousin, Yara, chose to have a party. The invitations were fancier than wedding invitations. Everyone got dressed up as if they were going to a wedding. The party was amazing, there were security men there who helped people out of their cars and escort them to the party. Yara was standing at the entrance in this magnificent dress greeting everyone who walked in. The party was located at their family's farm but I honestly could not tell it was a farm because of how decorated and fancy it was. There was a huge buffet table, a table with just candy, an open bar (the bartenders were also doing a fire show), a pool, tons of tables, waiters going around with food and drinks, a huuge display of little Brigadeiros (chocolates), and a dance floor with awesome lights and a cool DJ. This party was incredibly well-done. People easily spend about $3000 almost on these parties. There was also a station to do face-painting with neon paint. This party also has it's own instagram tag page. It was insane.
We got to sleep at around 5:30am.
The next day we had to get up early because there was another fancy party to attend to at noon. It was an engagement party of one of my other host cousins, Thais. The party was held in the back yard of Thais's house. Once again, the whole family dressed up nice, went to the party and met Thais's fiancé and his family. There were waiters bringing food and drinks around again and not to mention a hired group of people to do a Churrasco (BBQ). The food was amazing! There was also a table full of chocolates again. Every party here in Brazil has brigadeiros (mini chocolates made with condensed milk and chocolate powder).
On the Monday night, the whole family got together and went out for Pamonhas. Patos de Minas is famous in Brazil for their pamonhas. I really don't know how to explain what they are... They are made from corn and you can really much stuff anything in them. They are soo good!
Tuesday, Christmas Eve! December 24 in Brazil is the equivalent of the 25th in Canada; it's the big day! After lunch, Clarice and I went to Aunty Lourdes house to decorate with the other host cousins. We made stars, hung pretty pinecones with ribbons, etc. The house looked amazing! Once again, everyone got all dressed up and arrived at the party. There was so much food, drinks, sweets, cake, more food, and more food again. This family is so big, there was about 30 people there I think and that's not even all of them. At midnight, the whole family circled in the backyard, held hands, some said prayers, some said thanks. It was a really beautiful moment that I was so honoured to be a part of. After was present time. Since this family is so big, it's hard for everyone to buy a present for each individual person. Instead, they do 'Meu Amigo Segredo' (Secret Santa). When you go to give your present to your 'Amigo Segredo', you first have to stand up and say some things about the person and everyone has to guess who it is. The present I received is this beautiful (totally hand painted) jewellery box. It has the Brazilian flag on it and a colourful bird from the Amazon. It was also filled with candy when I opened it. After, my host family came up to me with presents as well. Clarice got me a beautiful necklace with tons of colours (it's so unique, no one will ever have the same), Pai got me a really pretty bracelet that they said is a famous type in Brazil, and Mae got me a super colourful and beautiful shirt that coincidently goes perfectly with my necklace and bracelet.
They all hugged me and told me how much they liked having me here and how it was so nice that I spent Christmas with them. They are the sweetest people ever, I actually almost started crying right then. It was such a beautiful night.
Something I forgot to mention: the whole 'Santa' thing is a little different here. In Brazil (or at least in my family), Santa comes to each house at midnight while the kids are still awake and hands out their presents directly to the kids. In my family one of the cousins dressed up full-out as Santa and came to the door. Santa passed out candy, took pictures with the kids and gave out presents. It was really cute.

Christmas Day, the whole family gathered at the grandparents' house for lunch. The day before, I had made two giant ice cream cakes for dessert. After we ate lunch, the dessert didn't stand a chance, it was gone so fast. Two giant cakes. Gone.
We gathered in a circle again, held hands, and said more prayers. I sang 'The Christmas Song' (Chestnuts Roasting on an Open Fire for those of you who don't know). After the food was gone, we packed up and headed home for Belo Horizonte. I hated saying bye to everyone because I knew I wouldn't be going back as often since I would be changing families.
People say that the holidays are the hardest part about exchange because you're not with your family. If I am being honest, yes I miss my family and there was a part of me that missed being with my family for Christmas. However I am so blessed to have had the chance to spend Christmas with such a sincere and caring group of people. I truly love that family so much, they welcomed me into their family the very first time I met them and I feel closer every time we get together. Thank you so much, everyone. Eu tenho muito amor para cada um de voces. Voces fizeram meu intercambio muito melhor. Muito Obrigada por tudo!

Merry Christmas/ Feliz Natal! I hope all is well from where you are reading this. Lots of love